(Los Angeles, CA / February 15, 2018) — What do women find incredibly sexy about men? According to Brian Begin, co-founder of men’s personal success site thefearlessman.com, it can be summed up in one word: indifference.
In his latest article, ‘How to Be More Attractive to Women by Developing Your Indifference to Outcome’, Begin explains the theory of personal detachment with women and why it’s so crucial to men’s overall development and attractiveness.
“If you can understand and develop indifference to outcome, this one piece alone can be life-changing. You stop being timid and fearful, and your true, innate confidence begins to shine through,” said Begin.
“You can look at a woman and have a desire to connect with her – that’s great, and you do want to have a clear intention. It’s the heavy attachment to the outcome – her validating and liking you, getting a phone number, a date, sex – that completely changes your personality with women.”
Indifference to outcome, says Begin, allows men to actually be themselves around women, rather than trying to figure out what’s going to turn them on, overthinking and ‘trying too hard’.
“All of a sudden, you’re trying to figure out what to say and do to make her happy, instead of just being charismatic, speaking your mind, telling her she’s sexy with confidence and being OK with it if she doesn’t like you… that’s indifference to outcome, because you did your thing with gusto and without being insecure about it… and if she doesn’t like it, plenty of other women will.”
Begin’s FEARLESS partner and co-founder Dave Stultz explains further: “This is one of the biggest things holding men back. When a guy is worried about getting a woman to like him, that’s when he gets tight, nervous, careful and stumbles over his words, and that’s just not attractive to women. You are trying to impress them rather than being real with them.
“When you learn to drop all that, you’re just so much freer with women, as well as all people. Stop hesitating and filtering yourself like Brian’s piece talks about, and you start to completely change your personality as a man.”
For more information about becoming FEARLESS with Brian Begin and Dave Stultz, visit www.thefearlessman.com.
ABOUT FEARLESS:
In 2013 dating & lifestyle coaches Brian Begin and Dave Stultz launched their first collaborative workshop that planted the seeds of FEARLESS, the personal improvement site that helps men push through fear, live courageously and get high impact results in all areas of their lives. FEARLESS brings out clients’ confidence and connection skills from their core so they can succeed at elite levels and build their true dream life.
Whether teaching in workshop or private-coaching formats, Begin and Stultz put heavy attention to detail on each client’s challenges through belief, thought and philosophy restructuring and real-world exercises to remove personal stumbling blocks so that natural confidence, communication and connection skills rise to the surface.