The dictionary describes the word “gift” in many ways. It is a special ability, something given, aptitude, bestowal, endowment, philanthropy and on it goes. Of course, all of those fit the word in perfect ways. However, to me personally, the word gift means “ongoing”. Let me explain.

As we near Father’s Day on the 15^th of the month it also puts me, personally, two weeks away from the start of my 90^th trip around the sun. That has been an ”ongoing gift” from birth through today and hopefully beyond. It has been a gift that has allowed me to see the good, bad and ugly of life, the world and all that we face each and every day. But it is a gift that I cherish each morning when I open my eyes, hear birds chirping and see the sun. It is the beginning of another day and what I can do to make it a better one.

This gift has given me more than I could have expected during all the years I have been on this planet. I was exposed to the ugliness of WW II as a child and learned then that this gift called life is very precious, Like millions, I lost family members in that war and years later would lose a brother as a result of the Viet Nam mess. Yet, with each ugly turn, there was always good to come along in some way and ease the pain. I found that out in my teen years and what this gift had planned for me and I have been blessed ever since.

Looking back at the good things that have happened in my life, careers, family, friends and where it has led me, three things stand out that have made this ongoing gift so worthwhile. First is the true love, understanding and belief in me I had from my mother Louise. Then later from two of the most fantastic women (Flo and Carole) in my adult life. Then there is the one I am most proud and blessed to have in my life and that is my son Warren. He has been through more pain, medical issues and hardships than anyone deserves. But he is a fighter, a loving husband and father and never lets life defeat him. While there have times over the years, I may not have been the best father, today we are in a very good place in our lives with each other. I love him with all my heart and so very proud of all that he continues to battle and win.

As Father’s Day approaches and my next trip around the sun is getting revved up, I am more appreciative of this ongoing gift I have been given each year. I promise to make this next trip a memorable one and continue to contribute in whatever positive ways I can to make this a better world. I also hope that I can continue to spread some sunshine into people’s lives along the way with my various writings through AAN and NightMoves and elsewhere.

Happy Father’s Day and please appreciate the gift of life you have received.

Art Koch, National Features & DVD Editor, NightMoves Magazine and AAN